Christian dating and cuddling, how far is too far?
Thank you for your excellent question.
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It is certain that it did not involve fornication, from the text of the passage. If this continue to happen more than 2 or 3 times, I would end it.
This is strictly forbidden for unmarried couples and those who are fortunate enough to be able to indulge in this pleasurable experience should keep that in mind.
Keep in mind, we are humans. These questions are about physical boundaries. Remember we are peculiar people.
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When you kiss yourselves while dating, the devil can take advantage of it. Are you patient with each other?
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Would you think it is wrong to send a "I love you" card when in love? The devil is cleverer than you are. Remember, pleasing God is way more important that pleasing your flesh.
In a practical sense, I recommend no touching where a guy or girl wears underwear. If you must greet yourselves, shake hands together.
But, just to reinforce, my girlfriend and I actively pursue being pure with each other, and we cuddle together on beds, but mostly carpeted floors or a couch or somewhere a little more public friends, family, etc.
Above all else, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life Proverbs 4: May God add His understanding to the readers Thus he set the precident. There is a difference between an innocent hug goodbye and an intense cuddle session.
If you have already gone too far, why stop?
For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? They have made purity into something which can be obtained by a human and therefore reduced Christ.
The very way you talk about abstenence as "purity" means at the very least you are influenced by their teachings. Dating can be described as a time during which the intended spouses get to know each other, their differences, likes and dislikes.
God is the Author of romance. Can Christians hug and cuddle with their boyfriends? The Bible gives us some very clear principles to guide us in making decisions about dating.